Mother
1907
At a winter house party, a group of friends gathers around the fire, and one of them, Richard Field, is gently pressed to share the story of how he won his wife. What begins as a shy man's reluctance to reveal his past becomes a tender, often funny reckoning with the forces that nearly kept him from happiness. Richard recalls his days as a struggling clerk in a gray industrial town, his quiet desperation, and the young woman he loved from afar: Ethel, whose family's wealth and social standing made her seem impossibly distant. The obstacles were formidable, not least Richard's own crippling self-doubt and the cold calculations of a society that measured men in dollars rather than character. Wister captures the particular agony of wanting something (someone) you feel undeserving of, and the small acts of courage that ultimately matter more than grand gestures. The story builds toward a moment of honest reckoning, as Richard tells his friends what he learned about love, class, and the terrifying, wonderful responsibility of building a life with another person. It is, in the end, a quiet defense of emotional sincerity in a world obsessed with surfaces.
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“This fear is what is the ruin of us all. And some dominate us; they take advantage of our fear and frighten us still more. Mark this: as long as people are afraid, they will rot like the birches in the marsh. We must grow bold; it is time!””
— Owen Wister
“إن الكنائس في المدن الكبيرة مليئة بالفضة والذهب اللذين لا حاجة لله بهما ، في حين يرتجف على ابواب الكنائس عدد لا يحصى من الفقراء ينتظرون بفارغ الصبر هبات نحيلة تُلقى في أيديهم المفتوحة.””
— Owen Wister
“The poor people are stupid from poverty, and the rich from greed.””
— Owen Wister
“in music one can hear everything.””
— Owen Wister
“The pleasure of living carries with it the obligation to die.””
— Owen Wister
“we people at the bottom feel everything; but it is hard for us to speak out our hearts. our thoughts float about in us. we are ashamed because, although we understand, we are not able to express them; an often from shame we are angry at our thoughts, and at those who inspire them. we drive them away from ourselves””
— Owen Wister








