The Perfect Gentleman

A reflective commentary on the ideals and behaviors associated with gentlemanly conduct, likely written in the early 20th century. This work explores the whims, aspirations, and inherent contradictions of what it means to be a perfect gentleman, touching on societal norms and expectations that have evolved over time. Through humor and keen observation, the author delves into the nuanced art of etiquette, dress, and personal presentation, creating a tapestry of insight about male identity and decorum. At the start of the book, the author introduces the concept of the ''Perfect Gentleman,'' positing that this ideal exists in the minds of many men, sparking a desire to embody qualities that are often admired but seldom pursued. He discusses historical perspectives on gentlemanly conduct, referencing an 18th-century guidebook intended for those aspiring to be perfect gentlemen, and humorously notes how the standards of the past contrast with contemporary ideals. This opening sets the tone for a broader examination of various social practices—dressing, making calls, and even grooming—inviting readers to engage with the often absurd rituals that shape male behavior in society, all while acknowledging the contradictions that come with such aspirations.