On Love

Stendhal wrote this book in the ruins of his own heartbreak, and every page bears the scar. What begins as a philosophical inquiry into romantic love becomes something far more dangerous: a diagnosis of love as a kind of madness, a disease we contract rather than choose. His famous theory of "crystallization" describes how we transform an ordinary person into something precious by projecting our own fantasies onto them, building crystals around their image until we love not the real person but our invention. This is a book written by a man who understood that love is both the highest faculty of the human soul and its most reliable source of suffering. Witty, bitter, precise, and oddly moving, it reads like a letter to a woman who rejected him that happens to contain the most acute observations about love ever written. Two centuries later, we still have not surpassed his analysis of why we fall, how we deceive ourselves while falling, and what remains when the crystallization dissolves.