“Genius is of small use to a woman who does not know how to do her hair.””
Quotes by Edith Howes
“Here you are! In the sacred present. I can’t heal you”
“How I hate everything!””
“How easily a life can become a litany of guilt and regret, a song that keeps echoing with the same chorus, with the inability to forgive ourselves. How easily the life we didn’t live becomes the only life we prize. How easily we are seduced by the fantasy that we are in control, that we were ever in control, that the things we could or should have doneor said have the power, if only we had done or said them, to cure pain, to erase suffering, to vanish loss. How easily we can cling to – worship – the choice we think we could or should have made.””
“But over time I learned that I can choose how to respond to the past. I can be miserable, or I can be hopeful”
“[Selden] had preserved a certain social detachment, a happy air of viewing the show objectively, of having points of contact outside the great gilt cage in which they were all huddled for the mob to gape at. How alluring the world outside the cage appeared to Lily, as she heard its door clang on her! In reality, as she knew, the door never clanged: it stood always open; but most of the captives were like flies in a bottle, and having once flown in, could never regain their freedom. It was Selden's distinction that he had never forgotten the way out.””
Edith HowesEdith Annie Howes was a prominent New Zealand teacher, educationalist, and writer, best known for her contributions to children's literature. Born in 1872, she dedicated her life to education and the ...