Lord Alfred Douglas
Lord Alfred Douglas, often referred to as Bosie, was an English poet and journalist best known for his tumultuous relationship with the playwright Oscar Wilde. Educated at the University of Oxford, Douglas became the editor of an undergraduate journal, The Spirit Lamp, which featured homoerotic themes that reflected his own identity and desires. His passionate affair with Wilde, however, was met with fierce opposition from his father, John Douglas, the 9th Marquess of Queensberry. The Marquess publicly accused Wilde of homosexuality, leading to a notorious libel trial that ultimately resulted in Wilde's imprisonment. This scandal not only marked a significant moment in the history of LGBTQ+ rights but also deeply affected Douglas's life and career. After Wilde's release from prison, Douglas and Wilde briefly reunited, but their relationship deteriorated before Wilde's death in 1900. Following this period of turmoil, Douglas married poet Olive Custance in 1902 and had a son, Raymond. Despite the shadows cast by his personal life, Douglas's poetry, including works like 'The City of the Soul' and 'In Praise of Daphne,' contributed to the aesthetic movement of the late 19th century. His legacy is intertwined with Wilde's, as both men navigated the complexities of love, art, and societal norms, leaving a lasting impact on literature and discussions surrounding sexuality in the Victorian era.
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View all 9 quotes“Then sighing, said the other, 'Have thy will,I am the love that dare not speak its name.””
“He (Wilde) did succeed in weaving spells. One sat and listened to him enthralled. It all appeared to be Wisdom and Power and Beauty and Enchantment... But a man who has broken loose from a spell cannot look back on the enchantment again and recapture the illusion of the shattered spell. He can only, as I do, remember that it was so, and wonder, and perhaps shudder a little.””
“The average woman is far braver than the average man. The common kind of courage-that of the soldier who disregards the danger of death-belongs to the majority of men in the last resort. I mean that if it has to be exercised they exercise it without making a fuss about it. But when you come to moral courage it hardly exists at all among men. There is only one man in ten thousand who will brave the full violence of public opinion. Women, on the other hand, will often do it, if they are in love or to defend their children... The bravest men are those who have a good deal of woman about them.””
